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Reflections on The Role of Silence as a Spiritual Practice

2/21/2013

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Una Agnew, SSL (Sisters of St. Louis), is spirituality professor at Milltown Institute, one of the premier centers for the study of theology, philosophy and spirituality in Ireland. She is the author of The Mystical Imagination of Patrick Kavanagh: A Buttonhole in Heaven, in which she uses the ancient mystical stages of awakening, purification, illumination and transformation to illustrate the fundamental mysticism of the poetry and the person of Patrick Kavanagh. 

In this video, Sr. Agnew discusses the role of silence as a spiritual practice and its role in the art of spiritual direction.
Summary and Reflections

Reflecting her love for poetry, Agnew begins with a quote from Kavanaugh, saying that “Silence is the heartbeat of the world” and expanding on that, “silence was once the heartbeat of the world, but now it is a stranger. We find it difficult to live with silence. But silence lives in the life of everyone and we must befriend it.” This is a difficult concept for modern people who are numb from a bombardment of sensory stimuli throughout their waking hours. In a real sense, many people are fearful of the silence, because in that silence they are along with two of their worst fears—themselves and God.

Agnew is adamant that silence be a non-negotiable component of spiritual practice “be-cause in stillness the spirit surfaces.” She recalls a memory to illustrate this from her time growing up in Ireland. Because Ireland sits high in the northern latitudes, during the fall/winter she would often have trouble going to sleep at the proper time because, essentially, it was still light outside. She recalls looking out of her window on one of these occasions and seeing the little rabbits coming out to play in the evening because the farmers had left. The rabbits remind her of the Holy Spirit, whom she describes as “recessive, shy, and needs quiet in which to surface.”

This reviewer very much resonated to Agnew’s metaphor. Being trained in the Lutheran tradition, he recalled Dr. Luther’s description of the Deus absconditus in contrast to the Deus revelatus. Much of modern non-denominational and charismatic theology focuses on the power and presence of the Holy Spirit in demonstrable ways (i.e. signs and wonders, etc.) and seems to have lost connection with a quieter, softer, more obscure Holy Spirit of previous generations.  

In response to the question, “How can spiritual direction help a person become comfortable with silence?” Agnew points out that silence “is difficult, not only because in silence does the Spirit surface, but also my past surfaces in silence, especially the unresolved areas.” This mixture of God’s presence with one’s own history can prove to be an uncomfortable challenge. Some of the thoughts and emotions which tend to surface during these periods are things which she categories as “the things I can’t tell myself.” For example, the truth that one is lonely, afraid, or angry. These and other items which one has “pushed to the background” begin to surface as one descends into silence.

An interesting point which Agnew mentions, but fails to elaborate on is her observation of the kinesthetic aspect of God’s presence and the human condition. She says, “My body will tell me when I am resentful, powerless…” but leaves it there. It would have been interesting to hear more about how spiritual directors might tap into the physicality of what is happening during a direction session.

Inviting the viewer in her own confidences, Agnew explains that “silence is a very sophisticated practice,” and how in her own life, sometimes her silence is “deep and quiet and tranquil” but at other times her silence is “noisy and full of little skeletons in the cupboard.” This is a great encouragement for those who are not full time contemplatives in religious orders. That even for the “professionals,” silence and stillness can be challenging.

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Barbara Rodriguez
2/23/2013 08:49:49 am

I think silence is a great topic for lent and spritual direction. I was introduced to centering prayer in 2000, and it was the first type of "silent prayer-meditation that worked for me, or that clicked. I had been a member of a 12-step program for 20 yrs. at the time which requires a daily spiritual practice of prayer and meditation, but because of the nature of this transformational process of the 12 steps, their are no leaders only trusted servants. Also people have different understandings of a power greater than themselves, and there are no formal teachers of meditation. So for twenty years I prayed daily and journaled and reflected on meditation readings for the day. Then I went on retreat to learn the method of centering prayer. No coincedences. It was so familiar to the spiritual principles of 12 step recovery (ie. surrender, acceptance, letting go. Father Thomas Keating who started Contemplative Outreach to bring this christian tradition of silent prayer to current generations, is famous for saying Silence is God<s first language. Be still and know that I am God. He also speaks to when in the practice of silence, often the unconscous mind is opened and the woundedness of a lifetime begins to surface. Not always in times of silent prayer, but even later in our day. He speaks to of the body being the warehouse of the unconscous, recording every repressed, painful or traumatic event. It is the Holy Spirit healing me if I just welcome the old pain and let it go.Contemplative walking showed me that if I am silent in nature, and in the moment, she will reveal herself to me. one more favorite quote from St. Augustine, Our hearts are restless untill we rest in God.

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bilal umer maher
8/21/2015 03:02:04 pm

silence brings normal condition when we are in hypo or hyper conditions

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    Steve Stutz earned his doctorate in spiritual direction and formation at the Houston Graduate School of Theology, where he is currently Adjunct Professor of Spiritual Direction. He received his initial training in spiritual direction through the Formation in Direction program of the Episcopal Diocese of Texas in 2006. He is a retreat leader and workshop presenter, having worked with groups in the US, Canada, and Africa. He is trained to facilitate the Ignatian 19th Annotation, is an expert in dream work, discernment process, and the charismatic gifts of the Holy Spirit.   

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